positive attitude | I Want Your Style

Sometimes I write about fashion…. what I do…. film a bit of street style and rant about make up and then get a bit emotional and ‘in the zone.’ Today is one of those ‘in the zone’ articles….. It’s getting to the middle of February, well it’s nearly the middle of Feb and I think Drake’s YOLO saying ‘you-only-live-once’ is being over used by a certain genre of people….. aka idiots!

The point I am trying to make is every once and a while we need to stop struggling and carrying too much stress on our shoulders and realise how well we are doing. Sometimes we don’t give ourselves enough credit on how well we are actually doing, the new year resolutions were thrown out last month and we just get caught up in this stress bubble. I have just smashed my little bubble taken a few steps back and slapped myself with a happy pill! Let me inspire you… make today an amazing day! We don’t realise how lucky we have it, sometimes I just need to stop caring and RELAX! I personally over stress… I need to do this and that and at this age I should be doing this… now the life is a non plan! See where life takes me,if this time next year I am living and working in Paris…. NYC…. or still sitting in my room… who knows! Smile, laugh…. do something new!

A few steps to a new YOU:

1) Stop caring what others think, I know quite a few people who care way to much about what others think of them! I understand that its relatively important maybe at work etc but in life just do what makes you happy! People pleasers always end up sacrificing their own happiness to make others happy! Put YOU first and smile… at the end of the day you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life so just stop….. listen…. breathe and go do that thing you have been putting off for ages wether that is ‘you’ time…. getting that new bag… baking…. going to the zoo… whatever it is just do it and stop caring what other people think!

2) Smile… I literally can’t stop smiling….. maybe my mum mixed my vitamin pills with happy pills but I am just in such a good place at the moment….and when I mean a good place I am not sitting on a beach… I am just happy with what’s going on….and my happiness is not dependant on a man or another person I am at peace with myself and taking the time to do things that make me happy! It’s my life…. so I will do things that make me smile…. yes that includes eating lots of cake… staring at tumblr (whatshouldwecallme)…..laughing uncontrollably with my besties and convincing my mother that we NEED a pug!

3) Positive people … place yourself around people that bring out the best in you! We all have acquaintances … but you need people that after a terrible day make you laugh! The friends that believe your crazy ambitions and tell you to reach for the stars… not the friends that laugh at your beliefs …. you should be able to count your true friends on one hand! …

4) Be Fierce… as silly as it may sound … be fierce… be daring…… smile… be outgoing…. talk to that person… laugh….. just DO it … ooze confidence and keep smiling…fake it until you make it ….. I am all for strong vivacious women! I love people with confidence they excite me… but there is a fine line between being confidence and being arrogant!

5) Everything happens for a reason… LEARN LEARN ABSORB and LEARN… don’t be one of those people … ‘oh why me’….and ‘drama follows me’…. it doesn’t! Sometimes we need to just accept that things happen for a reason and that should change our perceptions on things! Sometimes these ‘things’ can change our whole lives… I have been through heartache…. loosing loved ones and all the other jazz but it’s what you do when it all goes bad that makes you the person you are! Pump up some Whitney … at this moment in time I would request ‘I’m every woman’ or maybe even the Rocky theme tune! Just don’t let the bad times get you down, we are all here to learn and to shape ourselves into the best people we can be!

BE YOU…. don’t try and fit in… don’t try and be something your not! We love our friends and family because we can be whoever we want to be and they will accept us! Life is really too short to be shedding tears… and the people who are worth our tears won’t make us cry!

I hope you have an amazing day and smile!

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I have a saying that if you want something you have to get BIG you have to think BIG….. (that might not make sense to a lot of you but in mind it makes perfect sense)………I like to set myself goals….. I have no idea where I am going but I want to get there…..and when I do it will be amazing…… that may sound big headed to some but I don’t want to be the average Joe….. I want to be different, I have a personality.. I am ambitious…. I have a crazy imagination and CRAZY dreams! ….

I am at that age where I want to run before I can even walk!…. getting the drift! Quite a few months ago I had a life changing moment and I opened my eyes, changed my life and I am so happy! I got away from a bad bad situation and at the time I felt like I lost something…

Question yourself …. are you happy? If not why not? If so what makes you happy? Nobody is perfect and we can always better ourselves and be positive!

I have cut some very bad people out of my life, one person in particular and their bad views and opinions were affecting my judgement… and I am a STRONG women….. very strong minded actually so If I don’t want to do something I won’t! …. but then they say sometimes you are blinded by some people and the minute you cut off all the bad in your life… wether that is a bad friend,partner, dramatic college…. whatever it is you will notice the difference! 7 months ago I opened my eyes and started living my life, it may be hard to believe as I am nearly 24 and at the age of 16 I thought I knew everything (seriously I did)!

I enjoy not knowing whats going to happen but what I have learnt is to trust my own opinion, never doubt my instincts and always go with my gut feeling! I have a found a brand new me, I can’t stop smiling… and this has nothing to do with a boy…. or any lovey mush…. it’s the fact that I am in control of my own destiny! I literally feel free, if you have ever had a defining moment in your life, heartbreak, loosing a loved one or whatever your loss you have a lot of time to think! Sometimes too much time, I use to think I was my own worst enemy (well my thoughts anyway)! But after everything has happened I knew I was always right, you have that feeling inside of you telling you something…. go with it! Wether that feeling is telling you to travel the world, tell someone you love them, cut some off, grabbing your heart back from someone that isn’t appreciating you! Breaking down in tear….. letting off some steam! Whatever it is you ARE IN CONTROL of your future! So stop comparing yourself to everyone else and make your dreams a reality! I do it all the time, you can’t help it sometimes but you naturally compare yourself to others! Why? STOP it seriously.. we are all so different and the minute you compare is the minute you say you are like someone else… your’re not! You are you….. UNIQUE

They say you can tell a person by the company they keep… which is very very true! I however have a problem, I talk to everyone… literally can’t stop talking and I feel whoever I end up with will have to be a damn good listener and talk as much as I do or just be in awe of how fast I speak! Back to the point… you see this I keep drifting off the subject… I tend to do this a lot, I don’t do it on purpose it’s just the fact my head has so many different thoughts going on! It’s one crazy place inside of this cranium!

You will have about 5 true friends, the friends you tell anything too and you trust! They love you and will tell you the truth when you are in the wrong, friends like that are hard to find! All the other people are just acquaintances…. my problem is that I talk so much, trust too easily and care too much about people that are not worth caring about… sorry but its true!

The whole point of this is to motivate you to be the best you can be, you can write your own destiny and if one path doesn’t work try another! You attitude in life will differentiate you from others, be bold, be unique but be yourself! If you are more of a quite deep thinker and thats your comfort then do it! It’s coming up to my birthday and this month is such an emotional month in my life, I gain a year…. I compare myself to the last year and see what I have achieved…having lost a loved one I reflect! I reflect on my life plan which is now been thrown into a ball and all it says is LIVE LIFE… BE HAPPY B**** AND STOP STRESSING!

Are you one of those people that says you are going to do something but never does it? Don’t loose track of time, if you want to make something happen then just do it! If you don’t do it now you will always be waiting… waiting for the right time? How will you ever know it;s the right time?

Everyone started somewhere….. plant that little seed and watch it grow….. one plant…. two plants….. trees…. a forest!! Your imagination is your best friend, the best ability we have is to imagine and make those amazing images into a reality!