I have a saying that if you want something you have to get BIG you have to think BIG….. (that might not make sense to a lot of you but in mind it makes perfect sense)………I like to set myself goals….. I have no idea where I am going but I want to get there…..and when I do it will be amazing…… that may sound big headed to some but I don’t want to be the average Joe….. I want to be different, I have a personality.. I am ambitious…. I have a crazy imagination and CRAZY dreams! ….
I am at that age where I want to run before I can even walk!…. getting the drift! Quite a few months ago I had a life changing moment and I opened my eyes, changed my life and I am so happy! I got away from a bad bad situation and at the time I felt like I lost something…
Question yourself …. are you happy? If not why not? If so what makes you happy? Nobody is perfect and we can always better ourselves and be positive!
I have cut some very bad people out of my life, one person in particular and their bad views and opinions were affecting my judgement… and I am a STRONG women….. very strong minded actually so If I don’t want to do something I won’t! …. but then they say sometimes you are blinded by some people and the minute you cut off all the bad in your life… wether that is a bad friend,partner, dramatic college…. whatever it is you will notice the difference! 7 months ago I opened my eyes and started living my life, it may be hard to believe as I am nearly 24 and at the age of 16 I thought I knew everything (seriously I did)!
I enjoy not knowing whats going to happen but what I have learnt is to trust my own opinion, never doubt my instincts and always go with my gut feeling! I have a found a brand new me, I can’t stop smiling… and this has nothing to do with a boy…. or any lovey mush…. it’s the fact that I am in control of my own destiny! I literally feel free, if you have ever had a defining moment in your life, heartbreak, loosing a loved one or whatever your loss you have a lot of time to think! Sometimes too much time, I use to think I was my own worst enemy (well my thoughts anyway)! But after everything has happened I knew I was always right, you have that feeling inside of you telling you something…. go with it! Wether that feeling is telling you to travel the world, tell someone you love them, cut some off, grabbing your heart back from someone that isn’t appreciating you! Breaking down in tear….. letting off some steam! Whatever it is you ARE IN CONTROL of your future! So stop comparing yourself to everyone else and make your dreams a reality! I do it all the time, you can’t help it sometimes but you naturally compare yourself to others! Why? STOP it seriously.. we are all so different and the minute you compare is the minute you say you are like someone else… your’re not! You are you….. UNIQUE
They say you can tell a person by the company they keep… which is very very true! I however have a problem, I talk to everyone… literally can’t stop talking and I feel whoever I end up with will have to be a damn good listener and talk as much as I do or just be in awe of how fast I speak! Back to the point… you see this I keep drifting off the subject… I tend to do this a lot, I don’t do it on purpose it’s just the fact my head has so many different thoughts going on! It’s one crazy place inside of this cranium!
You will have about 5 true friends, the friends you tell anything too and you trust! They love you and will tell you the truth when you are in the wrong, friends like that are hard to find! All the other people are just acquaintances…. my problem is that I talk so much, trust too easily and care too much about people that are not worth caring about… sorry but its true!
The whole point of this is to motivate you to be the best you can be, you can write your own destiny and if one path doesn’t work try another! You attitude in life will differentiate you from others, be bold, be unique but be yourself! If you are more of a quite deep thinker and thats your comfort then do it! It’s coming up to my birthday and this month is such an emotional month in my life, I gain a year…. I compare myself to the last year and see what I have achieved…having lost a loved one I reflect! I reflect on my life plan which is now been thrown into a ball and all it says is LIVE LIFE… BE HAPPY B**** AND STOP STRESSING!
Are you one of those people that says you are going to do something but never does it? Don’t loose track of time, if you want to make something happen then just do it! If you don’t do it now you will always be waiting… waiting for the right time? How will you ever know it;s the right time?
Everyone started somewhere….. plant that little seed and watch it grow….. one plant…. two plants….. trees…. a forest!! Your imagination is your best friend, the best ability we have is to imagine and make those amazing images into a reality!
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